He was warmly welcomed into his Uncle Laban's home and began helping him shepherd his flocks. Name envy for what it is. When our lives are over, we're going to leave everything behind. Envy is defined as "a feeling of discontent and resentment aroused by another's desirable possessions or qualities, accompanied by a strong desire to have them for oneself."13. However, if and when these things become essential to us, we will look with the green eyes of envy at everyone who has what we want. Envy, Example Of Owning Livestock Those Who Envied. Because it wastes our time and opportunities and steals our joy! Numbers 5:14 | View whole chapter | See verse in context And the spirit of jealousy come upon him, and he be jealous of his wife, and she be defiled: or if the spirit of jealousy come upon him, and he be jealous of his wife, and she be not defiled: Her... More, 4. Today's society values people for their appearance or their achievements. We feel discontent and ill will towards them because we think we deserve what they have. . When Abel’s sacrifice was respected by God, and his was not, Cain killed his brother out of envy. Our ego is concerned. Envy causes inward pain when we see others succeed, and malice produces inward satisfaction when we see others fail. Why is it always they who are blessed?” Simple things like that which cause our soul, also known as our feelings and “reasoning,” to react and overreact. Are those same destructive emotions doing a number on you? Laban agreed to give Rachel to Jacob, too, but he would have to work seven more years. We have to begin by acknowledging it. As a result, He can sympathize with our weaknesses and help us when we are tempted. Leah and Rachel were sisters, and they were married to the same man, Jacob. What a complete rest and peace we can come into, growing in contentment and thankfulness. Jacob, the deceiver who had cheated his brother of their father's blessing, was outdone in deception by Laban! See the list below of all the biblical curses people can inherit or because of personal sins open the door for the operations of curses that rob you of your inheritance in the Lord. Why is envy sin? Used by permission. In one of the very first stories of the Bible, we are informed of the destructive power and wickedness that envy can cause. Its root is zelos, the same word from which we also get zeal, or zealous. To be jealous is to be anxiously suspicious or vigilant. Like many other emotions, envy is a symptom of other, underlying issues that need to be resolved. Jealousy and envy are emotions we all feel from time to time. What havoc jealousy and envy wrought upon this family! She ministered to so many over the years, encouraged so many to keep moving forward. In case you aren't aware of the symptoms of jealousy and envy, give yourself this test taken from material developed by Les Carter in his book Mind Over Emotions:14. "When Rachel saw that she was not bearing Jacob any children, she became jealous of her sister. Then we are alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord. We can't blame Jacob. â¦ Rachel was lovely on the outside, but her character wasn't very beautiful. Being jealous is not always wrong because God is a jealous God (Ex 20:5) that despises worship of other gods and so Paul wrote, âI feel a divine jealousy for you, since I betrothed you to one husband, to present you as a pure virgin to Christâ (2nd Cor 11:2). We see further evidence of Rachel's lack of maturity when God told Jacob to go back to his homeland. Genesis 26:14 Gen 26:14. "Then God remembered Rachel; he listened to her and opened her womb. At the same time, they never seem to take the responsibility for their own actions. But being tempted to envy doesn’t have to lead to sin! Holly has become disillusioned with Jack—she complains that he's too old for her. It is very difficult not to be envious of the woman with a beautiful figure when you struggle daily to not gain a pound. We can overcome like He overcame. We long for a happy marriage, successful children, a secure, pleasurable job. There was a physical difference between Leah and Rachel. When we see that someone has something we would like to have – physical possessions, or personality traits, or ministries, or talent – then a natural human reaction is to envy them. Let not thine heart envy sinners: but be thou in the fear of the LORD all the day long. When envy springs up and is allowed to live and grow in a person’s heart, it has horrible consequences. I've even tried to have her teach me. Bertrand Russell said that envy was one of the most potent causes of unhappiness. God’s Spirit and the flesh are at odds. While jealousy can be positive, envy, on the other hand, always has a bad meaning. Are you willing to pass along negative rumors about a successful person? The Seven Biblical Curses Listed in the Bible. When Saul let envy of David enter his heart the end result was that he was killed in battleAlmost all talk of battles and wars when concerning a Christian life refers to the inner battle that arises when a sinful thought tempts you. (1 Samuel 18.) who curse or mistreat Jews (Deut. Eventually, we will be under the full-time control of envy, a brutal taskmaster. In fact it continues. She had six sons and one daughter of her own before Rachel had her first son. Envy is a form of anger that might not be obvious to others until something triggers an angry outburst or reaction by the envious person. Those who practice envy and strife are barred from the kingdom of heaven ( Gal 5:19-26). We don't accept ourselves as we are; we are unable to recognize our own strengths. By doing the opposite of our sinful nature, we change our habit patterns and demonstrate to God that we are working with Him in renewing our minds. What does the Bible actually tell us about Satan? One wouldn't have to be a psychologist to predict the problems that were about to arise in that household. (Click to listen to an audio recording of this article: What does the Bible say about envy?). He raged, "But if you find anyone who has your gods, he shall not live" (Gen. 31:32). Before the year was over, Jack and Tammy had filed for divorce, Jack had left the church, and he and Holly were living together. Contemporary English Version Whenever people are jealous or selfish, they cause trouble and do all sorts of cruel things. A proud person would care. When he reached Paddan-Aram, where his mother's family lived, his cousin Rachel was the first person he met. Let's examine some of the outworkings of envy. (Romans 6:7-11. Envy on the other hand occurs when we are resentful of an advantage someone else has. "Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. It corrupts our motives, thoughts, and actions. Envy starts with desire. Both of them were in this battle to the bitter end. It's God's intention that our hearts and minds ought to be focused on new goals, and that our conduct should be controlled by new standards. But God continued to give children only to Leah. Personal rights must be balanced with personal responsibility. This was not exactly a great start for a marriage—especially one with two wives. How do we overcome it? The implication of this Scripture is that jealousy is hidden. He put the maidservants and their children in front, Leah and her children next, and Rachel and Joseph in the rear" (Gen 33:1-2). He did. There's a difference between the "right to life, liberty, and happiness" and the right to pursue life, liberty, and happiness. A tranquil mind brings life to one's body, but jealousy causes one's bones to rot. Whatever the reason, she deceived both her father and her husband. The members of the Body cannot work against each other, otherwise the Body wouldn’t function. The rivalry between these two sisters increased as they tried to build their families with strategies that were normal for that culture. She became pregnant and gave birth to a son and said, 'God has taken away my disgrace' She named him Joseph, and said, 'May the LORD add to me another son" (Gen. 30:22-24). He'd made his choice almost from the moment he saw Rachel, and it's impossible to drum up romantic love on demand. “A sound heart is life to the body, but envy is rottenness to the bones.” Proverbs 14:30. It's difficult for the envious person to share in the joys of other people, especially when someone else is getting what the envious one wants and doesn't have. We can see many accounts of that in the Bible. Sometimes a wife gave her maid to her husband sexually, and the maid became pregnant. Do you keep score of your own good deeds and those of others? We all want things we don't have: money, a nice figure, a better home, or more clothes. So do whatever God has told you" (Gen. 31:14-16). Envy is often the root cause of such poisonous fruits as hostility, strife, and fits of anger. Rachel was both a liar and a thief; she deceived her father and her husband. Meanwhile, Rachel could have been gracious and generous to her unloved older sister, but she wasn't. Then all “confusion and every evil thing” aren’t born from my actions. At first Holly innocently joined the other kids at the Jensens' home. In Genesis 5, Jacob was fleeing the wrath of his brother, Esau. In that day, it was a great reproach upon a woman if she did not give her husband sons. She had to catch up with her sister. © bcc.media foundation, Almost all talk of battles and wars when concerning a Christian life refers to the inner battle that arises when a sinful thought tempts you. It destroys relationships, sows discord, and creates a spirit of bitterness and evil. 3. It causes us to elevate our opinions and raises the importance of the fulfillment of what we perceive as our needs even above God's and, of course, decidedly higher than our fellowman's. This will ultimately be the way envy is routed out of our hearts. With His help, we will do so. ENVY HURTS OTHERS The Bible teaches "For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work" -James 3:16. (Numbers 16.) Holly was a bright, pretty child. When that happens, you can be sure envy is at the root. Scripture reminds us, "A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones" (Prov. Individuals blame their difficulties on their parents, their poverty, their lack of education, a past traumatic experience, or any number of other culprits. She needs a new Chevy Suburban, like the Jarvises'. We've already learned the value of 1 John 1:9. Verse Concepts. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things" (Col. 3:1-2). They may go home and weep afterward, but they are genuinely happy for their friends. It is not a sin to be tempted to envy, but if it is allowed to live and fester, it becomes destructive. 3. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal to you whether your ulterior motives are for selfish gain or to achieve status in other people's eyes. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” Galatians 2:20. There is no envy there! Still, her husband's passion and preference for her lasted all her life. The Lord would rather bless His people with abundance of blessings. God’s Spirit and the flesh are at odds. In the bible, we see that Saul was jealous of David, but to note, Saul brought his troubles upon himself. When the word is applied to God, saying He is a jealous God means He demands that we worship and love Him exclusively. That's a classic symptom of envy—it is insatiable. (1 Corinthians 10:13.) But now she was jealous of Leah because she wanted what Leah had—children. A short list of biblical examples of envy includes Cain/Abel, Jacob/Esau, Joseph/his brothers, Sarah/Hagar, Mary/Martha, and that handful of disciples who argue about whoâs the greatest (lucky for them, they didnât get explicitly named). “That’s not fair.” “Who do they think they are?” “Why don’t I get the recognition? When we trusted Jesus Christ, we received a new nature. Why do Christians observe Communion? Although we sometimes use the words jealousy and envy interchangeably, there is a difference. Can you imagine the conflicting emotions Laban's cruel deception produced? Scripture taken from the New King James Version®, unless otherwise specified. When Holly became a teenager, she turned her attention toward boys. Envy has an element of desire in it. So she said to Jacob, 'Give me children, or I'll die!'. Finally she became pregnant with the second son she wanted, but this time it cost her her life to bear him: "And as she was having great difficulty in childbirth, the mid-wife said to her, 'Don't be afraid, for you have another son.' Does he not regard us as foreigners? Why is it given so much importance? In the Old Testament, we have classic examples of jealousy and envy in the lives of two women who were victims of their culture. Jealousy can be used in a good sense. The tragedy didn't end with the breakup of Jack and Holly's marriage. Not only will it cause you to envy the person in the movie, but it will cause you to desire a relationship more and it can lead to envying relationships around you. Instead, we compare our weaknesses with others' strengths, and consequently we feel envious. Paul writes so clearly about this in 1 Corinthians 12:12-27. 2:1-2). Indeed, the unregenerate nature ever tends toward envy, manifesting the unbeliever's rejection of God, his truth, and his will for human conduct ( James 3:14 James 3:16). There is a way of escape. 2 In the Scriptures, envy * is listed among the death-dealing âworks of the fleshâ that can disqualify a person from inheriting Godâs Kingdom. Leah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. Imagine if we grow in virtues instead! Envy is something that most people are familiar with. The body we spend so much money on will return to dust. Because it divides people. In essence, Leah had to "hire" Jacob from Rachel for a night. “Since you have purified your souls in obeying the truth through the Spirit, in sincere love of the brethren, love one another fervently with a pure heart.” 1 Peter 1:22-25. ', "But she said to her, 'Wasn't it enough that you took away my husband? Do you examine others with a critical eye? What is the difference between jealousy, covetousness, and envy? Jack listened to her story patiently, and by now he felt close enough to Holly to put his arms around her in comfort. Envy is a complex and puzzling emotion commonly charged with being unreasonable, irrational, imprudent, vicious, or wrong to feel. When we share our material possessions, praise the success of others, and encourage others in reaching their goals, we will begin to experience the joy that comes from giving. This strong emotion can lead us to justify hatred or even doing mean spirited actions towards others. Do you have an insatiable desire for success? 2 In the Scriptures, envy * is listed among the death-dealing âworks of the fleshâ that can disqualify a person from inheriting Godâs Kingdom. Instead, we'll follow the Spirit's leading for our own lives and choose to be grateful for everything God does for us. Tools. She asked Jack if he could pick her up. It is an evil spirit that can cause immeasurable damage to your mind, will, emotions, and relationships. Who should naturally be jealous? Leah was eventually buried by Jacob's side in the cave at Machpelah with Abraham and Sarah, Isaac and Rebekah. And when his brothers saw that their father loved him more than all his brothers, they hated him, and could not speak peaceably to him. Envy is one of the traits of the Christian's former way of life ( Rom 13:8-14; Titus 3:3). Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good" (1 Pet. By faith, we too can reckon ourselves – our feelings, thoughts, opinions, ego, etc. That doesnât necessarily make you envious, however, because that kind of desire is okay when youâre drawn to imitate saintly people. and he hath possession of a flock, and possession of a herd, and an abundant service; and the Philistines envy him, YLT, BBE. Rachel was saved from discovery only because she hid the idols in her camel saddle and sat on it, then lied and claimed she couldn't get up because she was having her period. It is called the heart. We should never forget what John D. Rockefeller said when he was asked how much money is enough. (Read Galatians 5:19-21.) Purchase or download Christian literature at Christian BookShop, the online bookstore for Hidden Treasures Foundation Publishers (HTFP)/Stiftelsen Skjulte Skatter Forlag (SSSF). Harboring envy keeps us from hungering for God's Word, and God's Word is vital for us to continue to grow spiritually. Acknowledging your envy means looking at yourself honestly. When we recognize our boundaries and see instead the works that God has for us to do, we will fit into the Body exactly as we should, not taking up more space than we have received grace from God for, and being useful members that can work together in unity and harmony. 1. Scripture simply states the sad truth: "And Jacob loved Rachel more than Leah.". When your heart is set on Christ you will never thirst for anything else. Is there a different type of jealousy that is okay? If one member suffers, all the members suffer with it. Often it's due to parental favoritism (perceived or real). Do you work extremely hard to come out looking good? Jacob's favorite wife was buried by the wayside. Laban was a man who worshiped many gods. That's why it's essential to remember that only two things on earth will enter eternity—people and God's Word. 14:30). The Bible records, âA sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bonesâ (Proverbs 14:30). Proverbs 14:30. Its roots stretch back to the garden and was passed down through the generations. Galatians 5:19-21 tells us that envy is a product of our sinful human nature. Of course it is God's will for you to overcome that negative emotion, and there are some concrete steps you can take to do so. But his father named him Benjamin" (Gen. 35:17-18). It's hard to feel good about ourselves when we've been driving the same car for ten years while others are enjoying this year's luxury models. Envy is a dangerous passion that can cause us to strike out and hurt the person we are envious of. If you answered yes to some of these questions, you may be having trouble with envy, even though you haven't recognized it. 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